Whenever someone talks about the
M word, one thing pops out in our mind; and that is a good life, a comfortable
one, that’s what money can offer. But why do some people, although living the
life others can only dream of, still not happy? The simple fact that every
material pleasure is temporary, speaks for itself. People sacrifice their
health to gain wealth, and then later sacrifice their wealth for health, isn’t
that ironic? I mean, if you contemplate whether which of the two is more
important, isn’t health the topmost priority? When saving money, you are
preparing for future expenses. But no matter how much you have saved, what use
is that when you have no future to spend it for?
If there is
anything very important that I learned about spending, that is to spend money
on experiences, not things. Things fade away, they get lost, they get worn, but
memories of experiences stay on you for as long as you live. Many people tell
me to save; not that I don’t save at all, but for the past few years, I have
done more spending than saving. I get scorned of course, perhaps because they
don’t approve my habits, but the habit of spending allows me to feel the effect
of money. Therefore I make no regrets, because I know that I came up with
something good by doing so, and it benefits me in ways that thrift savers
cannot feel. Treat yourself right, you deserve it. Money is meant to be spent;
you can’t keep it in your vault forever, neither can you use it when you’re
gone. After all, it’s just a piece of paper that has no value unless you use
it.
I
have absolutely nothing against saving; I mean it’s good too, and yes, I save
too. It just happened that spending, in contrast to saving, works better for
me. Sometimes, what other people tell you is not always what’s good for you.
You need to be independent enough to explore your choices and see which fits
best. Living a happy and contented life doesn’t need to be pricey, some people
can settle a simple life yet live just as happy as a wealthy billionaire. It’s
all really just a matter of choice. When you save more, you are preparing for
the future. On the other hand, when you spend more, you are bringing the future
right in front of you. So don’t be afraid to spend. And one more thing; don’t
spend the money that hasn’t gone through your wallet first, it’s not advisable
unless at utmost needs, you know what I mean.
